Dear Future Wife!

Dear Future Wife!
Victory Odunjo

My Queen,

I have been trying hard to find you. It’s getting more difficult by the day! The more I think about you, the more I know haven’t seen you yet. I have found out that you are not in the midst of the ladies around me. These ladies want everything in my life to be going according to plan, but it hasn’t been going to exactly how I planned it.

They expect me to be the perfect man of their dreams, but I am not perfect. They want me to be their all in all, I surely can’t be that to them. I expect them to have a life and dreams without me. Which brings me to you, I know you have a life and I know you have great dreams and passions. You are purpose driven, and you are willing to take big leaps. These ladies are jobless and are so materialistic, they think by having access to my heart, they’ll have access to my bank account. They are so wrong, they haven’t even given me good enough reason to make that happen.

I struggle to trust their intents and true thoughts about me, they are not convincing at all. But you, future wife are convincing, you will show me all grey areas, even your weaknesses. You will show me that trust still exists, you will show yourself trust-able. Unlike these ladies I daily see, you are not ashamed of your past, and the woman you are becoming. You are not ashamed to show your scars, for you have learnt the lessons behind them. These ones here would gladly live a fake life and stand by it, they are their past, and most of them are looking for a Moses to create their future. My name is surely not Moses!

The ladies around me are looking for their dads to appear in form of a future partner, they think I am to do all the leadership. They look at me and do not take a good look at themselves. They are easily influenced by talks and gossips among their friends. But you my dear are just a good leader as you are a good follower. The side comments of others don’t mean much to you, because you know who you are and where you are going to. You are willing to stand for the truth and the things that matter.

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You don’t need me to help you understand your value, or to know your worth. You don’t need me to help your self esteem, because you are already of great value without me. Having you in my life will be a total privilege that I’ll get a chance of having. Not like these ladies wanting me to be their self esteem, they want my presence and my worth to be their worth, oh no! That’s so not happening to me, they need to go and work on themselves.

There’s this lady I know, that can’t leave her room without putting up makeup. To step outside her door to receive fresh air, she must have her make up on! To spread her wet clothes on the line, she needs to spend 30 minutes on front of the mirror. I wish you could tell her, dear future wife, that she was made with dust and not all the makeup tools she is glad she possesses. I wish she could see you without your makeup on, for her to see you glow and revel in your God given beauty. For her to experience your ability to make yourself beautiful, not just by your lovely face, but by your words, your actions and most of all your character.

You are not like them at all!! They are only interested in the now, they say “Come, let’s waste our time, money and lives. We are not like cats that have nine lives, we have only one life to live. Let’s do whatever we desire!” Most of them end up losing their lives to carelessness and freedom without restraint. Unlike you, you weigh your decisions and choices, you live with eternity in view. You know that the resources the world has to offer is all towards the future purpose, and must serve for your heavenly inheritance.

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I am not afraid to love, and so are you! Unlike them you don’t have a false perception of love, you don’t think love is sex, or love is money. You understand that love is an unending sacrifice. I am scared when these ladies tell me of their future homes, it’s not a picture I’ll like to describe here. The unique thing about you is you have the heart of a mother, the heart full of love, care and hospitality I have no fear that my kids will be well trained and brought up with you by my side.

It’s a huge boundary line between you and them, and that boundary can be summed up in one word; Belief! You actually don’t just believe in things, you believe in what many of these ladies claim to be nonsense and irrelevant. You believe in God, you pursue Him, and you let Him have the lead and totally influence every area of your life. You love Jesus! His life is oozing out through yours, your choices have been made by being subject to His authority. That’s how I know submission will not be an issue for you, all you’ve ever done is submit to God. So having Him place me over of you, while we both submit to Him will never pose a problem.

By my knowledge of you, I know I’ll know you when I see you, and I won’t pass you by. You are a rare breed, and to me you’ll be easily noticeable, it’s not hard to know people of worth and of value. I’m sure you’ll know me too once we meet, you’ll recognize the similarities in my traits, beliefs and in my character. You’ll see that I am a reflection of you, and that we are made to be one.

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I know you’ll read this and smile, because you know it’s you I’m talking of. I know you also know of the little secret I know: that by that very moment we both turn by the corners ahead, we’ll meet! It is then that my future with you begins. If my future is not with you, it’s with no one else.

I understand when the Bible asks in Proverbs 31: 10:

An excellent woman [one who is spiritual, capable, intelligent, and virtuous], who is he who can find her? Her value is more precious than jewels and her worth is far above rubies or pearls.

I am that man who can find you, and you’ll surely be found by me.

Miss you till I meet you!

Yours Faithfully Waiting,
Your Future Husband & King

Thanks for reading.
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  1. Stephany

    November 30, 2015 at 9:23 am

    WOW! :)

    • Niyi

      November 30, 2015 at 5:23 pm

      anoda big bang,dis guy Victory is a genius criously oozing out,u jst tend to hit it at usual nd common problems affectin youth.u jst dey make guys like me wey no get dis talent to b jealous.Jah bless bro.

      • Victory Odunjo

        Victory Odunjo

        December 3, 2015 at 2:23 pm

        Amen… Thanks a lot Niyi! I appreciate your kind words. Don’t feel jealous o, this talent is for us all to benefit from :)

    • Victory Odunjo

      Victory Odunjo

      December 3, 2015 at 2:23 pm

      Thanks Steph!

  2. O'pelumi

    December 1, 2015 at 9:51 pm

    OMG.I am blown away.

    • Victory Odunjo

      Victory Odunjo

      December 3, 2015 at 2:21 pm

      :) Thanks Pelumi for taking out time to read

  3. gloriaadebowaleGloria

    December 7, 2015 at 7:42 am


    • Victory Odunjo

      Victory Odunjo

      December 10, 2015 at 11:11 pm

      I’m glad it is, Gloria 😉

  4. OmotomilAYO

    February 19, 2016 at 9:19 pm

    Wow! This is lovely…. Aww aww… I’m blushing on the lady’s behalf o

    • Victory Odunjo

      Victory Odunjo

      February 21, 2016 at 9:23 pm

      Awww… This article is for every lady, not just one :) We have more wives and mothers every passing day

  5. Bukky Shaba

    April 20, 2016 at 11:39 pm

    Great post. It’s my first time on your blog and I like what I’m reading so far, keep up the good work.

    • Victory Odunjo

      Victory Odunjo

      May 2, 2016 at 12:08 pm

      I’m glad to hear that Bukky!! I’ll surely keep it up :) Thank you

      • Aramide

        January 5, 2017 at 8:34 pm

        This is awesome Victory!

        Go brother… More grace!!!

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